Why it feels so good: “This position can bend you open so that there is great access to the mons pubis, labia and clitoris. Attach the handcuffs around your wrists so that they sit behind the ankles,” says licensed marriage and family therapist and clinical sexologist Kat Van Kirk. Bend your legs up and reach back for your feet. How you do it: “Lie down with your belly to the floor or bed. “‘Queening’ is a very good tease position, where the top person almost lowers herself onto the bottom person but doesn’t quite make contact… ’till their partner begs!” Hands Behind Ankles Why it feels so good: “One thing the Fifty Shades of Grey reader doesn’t really get is a positive look at a woman on top,” she says. This could also be modified to involve woman-on-top intercourse but with the bottom cuffed,” Queen says. ‘Queening’ is also known as ‘sitting on his face,’ so this is an oral sex position where the woman gets lovely licks while the man’s wrists are bound above his head she just has to take care not to put her weight on his arms when settling in to be pleasured. How you do it: “For this position, the submissive partner is on the bottom.
The ‘top’ gets the delicious feeling of power and that the ‘bottom’ is there for the taking - quite literally.” If someone likes bondage, the immobility and ravishment are generally part of its delight. “This allows those elements to remain very important and adds a touch of power play: Hands over head and bound exposes the breasts and gives her more of a feeling of being ravished. Why it feels so good: “Anyone who already loves missionary position loves it because of the full-body contact and face-to-face intimacy,” she says. The dominant person is on top, probably talking dirty.” “You can up the ante with a second pair of cuffs on the ankles if the bed has legs to loop the cuff’s chain or a length of rope to.
If you simply can't wait, the search bar and the "ball gag" tag are your friends!įinally, please note that three of the films featured here- Love Object (2003), The Disappearance of Alice Creed (2009), and its remake Reckless (2014)-include so many scenes of interest that we needed two clips to do them justice, though for the sake of variety, only the first clip is on the playlist.How you do it: “The person on the receiving end lies on her back, hands overhead and cuffed,” says Carol Queen, Ph.D., staff sexologist at Good Vibrations.
While the infamous "gimp" won't appeal to most of our visitors, there's no denying his influence: a bondage accessory which previously had been considered too kinky for mainstream entertainment quite suddenly began to find new popularity with directors who wanted to bring a certain edginess to their work.Īnd today, here we are, with no less than Ariana Grande ball-gagging herself in a comedic cameo from Zoolander 2 (2016), and so many good scenes to choose from that only one of the four we've mentioned so far even made the cut for today's playlist (though all four can be found on the site).įor this first installment, we're focusing exclusively on feature films: TV episodes will be coming around in part two. That movie, of course, was Pulp Fiction (1994). But you could count the relevant scenes on one hand until a certain smash hit came along and changed the whole "ball" game. The first widely noted damsel to turn up with a ball gag in a mainstream Western film was Teri Weigel in Night Visitor (1989), though Thunderbolt and Lightfoot (1974) may be allowed on a technicality, and Japan's Shiryô no wana/Evil Dead Trap (1988) was likewise ahead of its time. Not too long ago, that would never have been the case. We know: we've been teasing this one for a while now! Unlike with the more common gag types, where we had so many options that we basically threw up our hands and "subcontracted" to a third-party curator, this time we decided to take complete ownership-but there were still so many fine candidates that it took us a while to get all our clips in a row.